Captain Dr Dinisha Bhardwaj Singh

Activist, Brainstormer, Change Agent, Educator/Teacher, Global soul, Social entrepreneur, Writer/Editor

I am a pioneer Indian army officer part of the first ice breaker batch .Served across the length and breadth of country in various highly responsible positions and sensitive places .After 10 years of short service protocol ,then ,converted to Educationist and leader to disseminate Army leadership to future leaders ,with ingredients of education ,humility full of Indian Values and Global Growth Wrapped with management skills for their holistic development and true growth . ..There was much more to give so widened the circle every moment with all endeavours to give back to society by various measures and connects through NGOs and local bodies .I reach whenever the need reaches me . On Academic front I hold doctorate in Education,Post Graduation in Physics(Electronics),management (HR) and Education Diploma in Education management ,Multimedia and Web Designing and leadership management . On literary front :I write ,articles ,poetry and fiction in English and Hindi On Oratory skills ,I love to give my heart out in a motivational way with Army touch . Anchored various Parades ,social as well as academia events. Adventure front came my way and I grabbed every opportunity Officially trained for rock climbing and rappelling for paragliding (Powerless glider)level 1 Expedition on camels across Pakistan Border A lot of trekking crosscountry side of North ,East and North East Car and Bike rally,marathons and Cyclathons and the trend is still live On sports front ..jack of most master of none ,having touched Squash ,badminton and occasionally Golf .... Family front ,wife of a uniformed officer of Indian forces ,mother of two daughers I live with aspirations and humility ...nothing should die. Travelled a long journey ....uphill.which may be unfolded at right time and awaited platform ....A lot more if life gives a chance

Churning everything whatever comes my way with the BEST OF OUTCOMES . I am a motivator and change agent

Be the change you want to see in the world . & Smile and Give what you expect But A fire should always remain ignited with never to forget to be the best human

As I said ....its an uphill journey ..which ignited a spark to reach at a point to make a change ..to be the change agent ..so what if you are week at any point of time in ANY OF THE ASPECTS . My story ..I am a child born to parents after almost 20 years after their wedding ..parents who migrated from other side of border now called pakistan ..which they used to call it their home ,mom in early teens then and dad a young medical student with a medical degree w/o final year exams of medical ...not migrated but ran to save their lives .Struggled to live ...came to decent point ...but faced the challenge of trying to give their best to us sisters ...their daughters of their grand children's age .They were tired ..but walked with smiles till I was in 10th after that it deteriorated and automatically I kept becoming very grown up and the younger one very small defying ga of 3 years .i did not stop ..learnt not to spread hands and started teaching students just one class junior to me ..to fend for myself .Society for women had never been admiring . worked studied but always maintained dignity grace and looks too ,which always troubled a few ..I was ason ,my dad used to call me but for mom I was a daughter her concern ..she was always troubled with this thought .we both moved ..household chores ,social obligations ,studies and tuitions (source of earning) and us ..and our smiling parents health kept deteriorating ,which I never realised . there were no mobiles ..I could imagine what could have been condition of parents when me their beautiful daughter who used to get up before sunrise ,cook for all for the entire day ,get ready to go to college by travelling almost 2 hours each side ,preparing for lessons to be taught in tuition classes as night spending time till 4 Pm in college in UP coming back reading lessons taught that day ,immediately taking on tuitions on arrival till 11 PM ,then offering dinner cleaning the house for next day with other readiness work sitting with them for some time relieving them off from mental and physical tiredness ..and to move on never realised the agony of father who Just called me son for what I was doing ..but couldn't ignore society and thus was always hiding trouble in heart which could feel now .There was a say when I did not have books till final date sheet was declared ..but we moved on ..all this troubled all when I couldn't give treksuit to my sis when she took admission in sports college and bought second hand trek trousers which she never wore and then she won some competition and got a kit .As the days passed by every moment pained me and as always I kept on telling this to my best friend ..my personal writing pad ,..which sometime became a story , a poem an article or fiction .Udaan a TV serial touched me since school an I wanted to wear uniform ,but no money for books and training for civil services .Then God Sent way out with entry of women in Indian Army .I went raw and came out as officer ..a pioneer but could not achieve that level as I was onto training but my soul was with three of them as the only earning source was closed ,but thanks to small stipend which helped us to sail through .In this bargain I missed onto excellence ..and like always kept chasing till I proved to be the best shooter amongst girls along with one more .It does not stop here I was commissioned into Indian Army came for first basic course and I lost my dad ..mom lost partner,sister lost trust and I lost peace but kept moving balancing all situations of life as TASKS .People started idolizing me to be an example daughter and I started helping people whenever on leave .Then this brotherless father less girl where all kept eyes on, became an example one thing I missed in between is my mom who left us one day in ailment and seclusion because she never wanted to leave the home she created and to be with me in my care ..and the desire to be real Indian son expired with her.....life moved on Now I am mother of two daughter so called under protection of an Army officer mom and a forces officer dad ...rather young parents .but I don't call them sons ...I am still worried of them as daughters and realise my parents agony when I was to be out alone ...i just tell them be capable ...so much that you can be reasons to add capability in others too ... I still stop when I see some old man /old woman ..pained anywhere to extend if they need any help ...I still stop when i find a young girl moving alone in dark ...as I did no of times to remove the scare I used in my mind to reach home safe but Still I have fire to do more ,to be more capable to bring the real change where I can serve more number of people ..be more close to humanity where no one feels ,goes through what I did ..what many may be still doing ,as despite being an officer in Indian Army ,Despite being stylish and beautiful I was rejected by a groom with a plea THAT THE GIRL DOES NEITHER HAVE BROTHER NOR FATHER .I want to be the change.

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